On the pain of loving

Authors

  • Plinio Montagna Sociedade Brasileira de Psicanálise de São Paulo

Keywords:

Aesthetic, Affect, Autonomy, Love, Mentalization, Otherness, Pain

Abstract

The paper presents the specific pain of loving, due to the perception of otherness, and autonomy of the object. This is different from the usually presented as the pain of loving – related to loss or separation of the object. That perception discussed also in relation to the aesthetic experience.

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Author Biography

Plinio Montagna, Sociedade Brasileira de Psicanálise de São Paulo

Analista Didata da Sociedade Brasileira de Psicanálise de São Paulo.

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Published

2010-05-17

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Montagna, P. (2010). On the pain of loving. Psicanálise - Revista Da Sociedade Brasileira De Psicanálise De Porto Alegre, 12(1), 173–182. Retrieved from https://revista.sbpdepa.org.br/revista/article/view/346

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Vol. 12 No. 1 (2010): 100 anos da IPA

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